As we heal and begin to direct different aspects of our being while in a curious state we can begin to regain balance. But we cannot overlook what fuels our being on all levels.
Question: Dear Alana, I have been on a spiritual growth path for many years and although I know I have made progress, I still feel stuck in many areas of my life (weight, finances, relationships, career).
I sense that my old tapes and old ways of thinking are still preventing me from having the life I dream of even though I practice every single day by focusing on what I want my life to be like, and so on.
Why am I still stuck on so many issues in my life and will I ever see my dreams come true?
I’m sick of being broke, lonely, fat, and doing work I dislike. I want to be financially secure and have abundance in all areas, of my life. I want to have my soul mate in my life rather than be in a relationship that is not nurturing me in any way, shape or form.
I want to have a successful career I love. I want to have many like-minded friends in my life. I want to be joyful and at peace. I want to look and feel the best I can possibly look and feel for once in my life.
I want to make peace with food and have nutrition and a balanced diet. I want to use food for the correct reasons (to nourish my body) not for other reasons. I want to feel I have a purpose in this life and live it.
Will I ever have the joy I seek? Thank you for your insight. Bless you
Answer: Hello, dear one! Alana appreciates the sincerity and honesty within your question and also recognizes that your question is one that many individuals hold within their hearts.
Root for Finding Fulfillment
People experience their existence on many different levels simultaneously. We have our physical body, we have our mental thoughts, we have our emotions, and we have our spiritual truths.
Therefore, your question feels like one of learning how to address all expressions of individuality with a harmonious expression.
What Alana means is that I feel you have been opening your heart spiritually and also expanding awareness of who you are. This is delightful for it is a wonderful step by having all these questions and desires.
Alana feels that you are on a beautiful spiritual journey and in time, as you continue to be aware, ask questions, tune into your heart that your spiritual nature will continue to blossom and the aspects that are resistant will lighten and allow you to receive more.
Acknowledging What Is
Alana feels that on a mental level you have a very good mind. You have a brilliant nature. You are very intelligent, smart, and are adept at many things. On an emotional nature, Alana feels your ability to expand your senses and I feel many aspects of expression, and in full ways. On a physical level, I feel that you have a delightful body, and a body that knows how to embrace health. So, Alana is really encouraging you to recognize that you have all within you to empower what you want to create.
It seems what is happening is some of the different aspects of your nature have gotten out of balance.
Balancing Aspects of Self
As we heal and begin to direct different aspects of our being while in a curious state we can begin to regain balance. But we cannot overlook what fuels our being on all levels.
When people forget to address the physical by recognizing that it is really a grand aspect of our well-being, then they miss an important aspect of self-love. When people only embrace the emotional, and forget that there is a spiritual level to their being, then they are also forgetting an aspect of self-love.
Alana is wanting to guide you in bringing into balance all four levels: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual simultaneously with greater awareness in the form of non-judgemental baby steps.
You can begin by turning towards vehicles, expressions, mentors, or information on all 4 areas that bring you closer to recognizing what are the components of a harmonious state. When looking on the physical, recognize our physical level influences how we feel emotionally. It also influences the ability of our minds to reason and hold thoughts. It makes sense that by addressing the physical elements it will also support and balance the emotional, mental, and spiritual parts of our being as well.
As we open ourselves spiritually by bringing in more light, it filters down and assists us on the emotional, mental, and physical levels, too. Alana feels that spiritual harmony and physical balance ripples through and assists emotional and mental growth.
Alana suggests that as you continue with your spiritual expansion keep seeing your life the way you wish it to be. When your mind judges, allow your judgments to be present but take them a step further. Sit with your judgment, but don’t stop there. Bring the emotions and feelings that come along with it into your heart. Hold them there aesthetically (bask in the beauty of collective heart’s love).
On the physical level begin turning to models that help you understand how the physical body works. This will point you to tools that will help you balance your physical nature. Look at what you eat. Look at what you drink. Look at your water. Make sure that you get enough fluid, and make sure that your body gets enough oxygen.
Attention to the physical is very important because the body is made up of elements within the stars and it needs a certain amount of nutritional vibration that is compatible to its natural thriving state. When we put vibrations into our bodies that are denser, or are somewhat foreign, it can throw our whole vibration off balance. And this will ripple and affect us mentally and emotionally as well. When our physical body is bombarded with synthetic substances it can create imbalances that can dim our other systems.
As you take an inventory you may find a key area to place attention first. You may find areas in your life where you can make better choices and find greater ease in saying no to what may distract you from achieving balance.
Useful Choices
Now that we have addressed the various parts of your nature independently, your mind can begin to direct how to create preferences and more useful choices. It is also most important to step beyond the implications of separateness. Sensing your beingness as light and information that is whole brings an ability to create balance in your being while at the same time develops an observer that connects with oneness which is a platform for transformation.
In a sense, this awareness and your newfound abilities to discern in greater detail will assist you in creating a healing grid that invites manifestation now that it is given a space to occur.
Hopefully, Alana has given you some greater insight into what might be holding you back and offer some ideas you can act upon. I feel, dear one, that you are not doing anything wrong. Okay?! Keep doing what you are doing, and expand your awareness to bring within you more tools that are supportive of you on all of the levels of your being. Thank you, dear one.
–Alana
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