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Question: Alana, I married at a young age of twenty years old. Our marriage was short because we had many difficulties around us and he didn’t know how to handle stress. Because of my mother, I was the one who left our marriage. I have been divorced for eight years now. I still think of […]

Question: How do I learn to really love myself? I have spent a lifetime of being interested and involved in other people’s lives, but not my own. If others don’t go out of their way to show me that they love me, then I feel unloved and unlovable. From this, I feel devoid of self […]

Question: I am interested in a relationship with a guy who is very different from me and comes from a different background. I am wondering Alana, is it true that in relationships opposites attract? Answer: Thank you so much for your beautiful question. Let’s discuss how the sexes are sometimes drawn to character traits that […]

Question: I have recently divorced for the third time now. I asked for every one of the divorces. I felt trapped in unhappy relationships. The ex-husbands seemed happy enough. I always felt something was missing. My question to you is, “Will I find my soul mate soon?” I don’t know if soul mates really exist […]

Question: Something has been bothering me for some time. I know this isn’t “Dear Abby”, but I thought that maybe you could give me some relationship advice. I have been friends with this guy for a long time. We’ve grown up together and we’re practically brother and sister. But over the last year, after having […]